"Love Thyself" Tarot Tuesday Weekly Guidance & Energy Update

This is a channeled message featuring guidance from The Spirit of the Dolphins When this message reaches you it is divinely timed. Take what resonates and leave the rest. This is intended for the week of July 21st ~ 27th, but whenever it reaches you it is meant for you. Trust and receive.

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Hello and welcome, beautiful Souls!

This week's energy starts off with a deep need for Self Love. I love that a Water card came up, as the energy I feel from the New Moon in Cancer, a Water sign begins to push us forward with ease and delight. The element of Water is speaking to me strongly this week, especially paired with the Drum card; it feels like the combination of vibration and Water can be very healing. I am picking up on a cleanse and transformation that is happening on a cellular level. I feel this is especially true for those who are Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Picsecs) or you could have a lot of Water in your chart.

Connect with your emotions is what I just heard from Spirit. You may be feeling loss, grief, sadness, emptiness and abandonment, but this to me is saying; Here, this is how you can Heal Yourself right now, by slowing down, connecting to your emotional body, checking in with your feelings and taking stock of where you’re at emotionally. Sometimes we harbor a lot of repressed emotions that begin to make us feel weighed down, but working with the element of water, either through crying and releasing tears, using your imagination, Spirit Animals, Salt baths, swimming, walking near water, drinking more water, playing in the water, will greatly benefit your wellbeing at this time. However you like to connect with water is perfect for you. TRUST YOUR INTUITION, water babies.

I am also picking up on individuals who have always felt a desire to be close to water, to live near the water or some of you even dreamt as a child about being a marine biologist, working closely with animals of the sea is a passion for some of you. Spirit is saying that you can trust this calling and move forward with trust. I am seeing the Spirit of the Dolphins guiding you, I see the most beautiful sunset of the water and beautiful colors of blue and purple, pink, orange, yellow, red. It’s a beautiful sight. You’re seeing synchronicities in the form of water, dolphins and other water animals. They are guiding you from Spirit, through your dreams and imagination. You can connect with them through meditation and shamanic journeying.

You may feel like you’re swimming the depths of the unknown. I am also picking up on the Spirit of the Mermaids. They are here to help us traverse the collective emotional depths. This is teaching us how to relate more intimately with one another as a Society, as a whole. Especially with the Animal Kingdom. I am coming back once again to this deep desire to help the Animals and WildLife of Mother Earth, this desire to work with Animals is a passion that is guiding you to possibly clean up the Oceans, to go vegan, to recycle, to work with Water in some way, to help purify it, detox it, return it to it’s natural Source.

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Some of you are able to work extremely close with the element of water. You are able to use it to heal and transform your own cellular memory. I am picking up on Hydrotherapy (includes such treatments as saunas, steam baths, foot baths, contrast therapy, hot and cold showers) When we use the element of water to do energetic cleansing we can purify our energy field and open up to a sense of renewal and rebirth.

There is a blossoming that is happening this week. It feels so beautiful, but it is also super uncomfortable is what I am hearing, Spirit is saying; you’re going to experience growing pains, but this is teaching you how to Love your Self unconditionally. Can you see this time as a valuable teacher, rather than as something you have to work against. Just like Water takes the path least resistance, so shall you.

Spirit is saying; stop fighting what you already know. Let your Self sail. I see a beautiful sailboat gliding in the wind. Sailboats may be a sign for some of you. Or large ships. I love the ones with the big white sails, they always remind me to open my mind. To point my focus upon my desired direction and have so much open space, yet feel completely confident in where I am heading, even if I can’t “see” my destination, I can Trust that it is there, that I will land exactly where I am meant to be.

The Full Circle on the Drum card reminds me of a compass. And the card says “Dream and Journey”. There is this journey happening on an emotional and cellular level for some of you and for others this is a physical journey, traveling of some sort. You may have uncertainty about traveling these paths, but as you follow your emotions, your heart, your intuition, you are being carried through with Love and c o n n e c t i o n.

When we are connected to our emotions we are connected to our heart space, when we are connected to our heart, we are connected to All That Is. We are Present. The Dove on the Ace of Cups always stands out to me, I see it as a sign of P E A C E. During turbulent times we have to remain centered in our own Knowing. We have to Trust and surrender to our own wisdom. Too often we look outside of ourselves for the answer, but this is saying; you are the Captain of your own Life, you get to decide where you’re going and how it will look. Don’t take too many other opinions in to account when following your heart, trust your own guidance above all else.

Some of you are healing control issues and this is creating a lot of emotional healing. Don’t see it as a time of “doom and gloom”, use it to become the Light in the Dark. Just like a lighthouse. Shining its light in the middle of the crashing tides in the pitch black night. You don’t have to drown, you can stand tall and shine on. You don’t have to go out to sea and drag people to you, you don’t have to rescue anyone or save them, they are just drawn to your light and your safety and will come to you in their own time.

Some of you are learning how to be emotionally independent, you’re not allowing other people’s “bad moods” to drag you down. You are practicing being your own life jacket. As you cultivate more Self Love and Pleasure and playfulness in your Life, as you take action on the things that make you feel good, that make you feel fulfilled, you become your own flotation device, you stop panicking, fighting against it all, and you s u r r e n d e r and peacefully make it back to “shore”.

Spirit is saying: Let Love Lead You, let it gently take you by the hand and lift you. Just like the hand in the Ace of Cups, let Spirit assist you. I see a person trapped in a deep well, they are stuck at the bottom and trying to claw themselves out, they are wearing themselves out, draining their energy, trying to “get out” of where they are, but in order to free ones Self all they have to do is cry. Their tears will fill the well and it will act as a flotation device that lifts them right out of their own Self Created Well with ease.

There’s a need here to take responsibility for your own emotions. To be the creator of your own happiness, love, and value. This is challenging because no one really teaches us how to take responsibility for our emotions. Generally we are taught that responsibility only includes material based needs, such as paying the bills and going to work. Most of us are taught at an early age to abandon the responsibility of our emotions. It’s not “important” and therefore gets put on the back burner, but then you s u f f e r emotionally which leads to struggling mentally.

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we don’t take care of our emotional health, it lingers and it festers and it turns into stress and that turns into anxiety and anxiety leads to poor sleep and health, it taxes your body and nervous system and leaves you feeling heavy, tied down, helpless, burdened and overwhelmed. This reflects in impulsive behavior and erratic moods, it can lead to depression, addictions, mood swings and suicidal thoughts.

Spirit wants you to know that if you feel that way, if you struggle with Mental Health, it is nothing to be ashamed of. At the root of the anxiety is the unresolved emotion. As we take back responsibility for our Emotions we get to decide how we will feel, which improves our mentality and raises our vibration, lifting us once again out of a well of Self Imprisonment.

This same message came through last week as well. There is a need to rest and relax. But your Ego may be coming in strong because it senses more Love and it wants to protect you, so use this time to tame your Mind. Listening to drums is very therapeutic and can really shift you on a cellular level. You can also use them to do Shamanic Journeying. It’s a form of meditation that allows for you to shapeshift and travel through dimensions, expressing your emotions through animal archetypes.

This is one of my favorite things to do. It is a playful and lighthearted way to move and shed primal energies we have stored deep in our cellular memory. It can be very healing and allows for you to meet different aspects of your Self. For example if you’re needing strength you may see a large cat in your meditation or through your clairvoyance, you may be able to sense their energy or telepathically communicate with them to help you understand more clearly what it is your feeling.

There’s a need to become more aware of what you’re feeling throughout the day. To start to track your feelings as frequently as you do your notifications and notice when they shift and why. What are you doing when your mood shifts, are you around certain people, are you engaging in a specific conversation? Keep track of your emotions, watch when they bubble to the surface and then get curious about them, journey deeper into your own psyche to reveal the answers to you.

Some of you are needing to spend a lot of time alone, in meditation or nature, but you may fear this subconsciously so you try to fill the void with distractions, but there’s an openness in your Life right now that is inviting and intriguing. Allow the vast space to mystify you, let it be the place from which all New Life is Created. Fill that emptiness with ALL that you’ve ever wanted, emotionally.

Fill your Self with Love, Hope, Optimism, Faith, Compassion, Forgiveness, Trust, Confidence, Pleasure, Peace, Passion, Presence, Connection, Creativity, Prosperity and Abundance. Let your Self overflow this week. You may feel all mushy and gushy, you may feel called to express your love in some way, either through communication, art, music, movement. Let your Self be moved by the beat of your heart this week. It is safe for you to Love, it is safe for you to give and receive love.

You may feel extra sensitive this week; crying for no reason, bursts of excitement, but also lows of grief. Let the waves take you where they may, don’t be afraid of where you’re going, just stay relaxed and open. As you learn to go with the flow you heal your feminine energy and you learn to trust in the process of your growth. Let the waves soften your sharp edges, let it mold you into who it wants you to be. Stop forcing your Life to look a certain way and surrender to what is, see the magic that is swimming around you.

There may not be a lot of action happening on the “outside” or in your physical world, but Spirit wants you to go inwards and become present to ALL that is surrounding you. Start to count your Blessings, give thanks for the overflow of abundance in your life. Let your Self become saturated in your own Love. As you give more Love to your Self that is what you begin to attract more of. Be loving toward your Self in your low moments and watch as you rise out of them much more gracefully.

When we were children we may have had “big” emotions; such as anger, sadness and joy that was met with opposition. This can create a feeling of inner turmoil or a constant sense of friction. When we embody this feeling from childhood, in adulthood we will end up unconsciously creating this dynamic with intimate relationships in our lives. We may believe that love is conflict, chaos, drama, name calling, arguing, fighting and tension. This is a learned perception of Love from our caregivers, but it's not True Love.

True Love is Love that is unconditional. It means that even when our partners or our children aren’t behaving their best, we can see through the eyes of Love and recognize it’s because they aren’t feeling good, which means they’re not thinking good, which means they’re not behaving “good” and instead of condemning them, punishing them or putting them down, can we respond with MORE LOVE, MORE EMPATHY, MORE COMPASSION, MORE UNDERSTANDING and see how this begins to reflect in their ability to respond more openly towards us?

As you look into a pond you see your reflection, sometimes it may be still and clear and other times it may be chaotic and messy. Our closet relationships will reflect this. We have both of these contrasting energies of opposition dwelling within us all, but can we learn to sit with both of these aspects of our Self, the Light and the Dark and not react impulsively from our unconscious mind, but acknowledge them and communicate with them, connect with them and let those parts of us know they’re not alone. Because when we begin to feel supported emotionally, by giving our Self the Love we want to receive from another, we start to harmonize our energy and attract emotional availability.

My poetry interpertation for this weeks guidance <3

Some of you may be healing a pattern of attracting emotionally unavailable men or women into your Life. This stems from early childhood when one or both of your parents were emotionally unavailable to you. When left unresolved this can lead to dating “players”, people with commitment issues, third party situations and narcissists. Any form of emotional abuse is being recognized within your consciousness and it is ready to heal. As you practice showing up for your Self emotionally you heal this wound. When we stop abandoning our Self emotionally then we heal our deep fears of loss, that we created in early childhood when we lost our parents connection because of our “bad behavior” or “big” emotions.

When we practice showing up for our Self and being the caretaker we need to be for our Self we can provide that same nurturing and care for others, especially our partners and children, but also our friends, communities and colleagues. When we “fill our cup” we can overflow with so much Love and Light and Hope. We can BEcome a safe place to land. We can extend a helping hand. When our partners or our children are “acting out” it’s not something that needs judged or punished, it’s a sign of needing attention and connection.

As you give your Self the attention and connection you need then you can become aware of when they are needing it as well. When we become the provider of our own happiness and we stop relying emotionally on people to make us feel good, to validate our ego, to determine our value we free our Self emotionally and we no longer feel caught in a web, we no longer feel victim to another person's actions and behavior and we perceive them as an act of Self Preservation, as a coping mechanism, rather than a personal attack.

When we stop taking things personally we can start to open up to a new perspective, we shift our energy and begin to feel more light hearted. There’s not so much weighing on your chest, you feel relieved, and expansive. You begin to journey into new territory; mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically. You start to feel aligned and fulfilled all on your own, you aren’t looking to be completed or validated because you’re accepting your Self and in return you’re going to receive acceptance and freedom and connection because you’re no longer judging your Self, you’re unconditionally Loving Your Self.

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