"Love is in the Air" Tarot Tuesday Weekly Guidance & Energy Update
- ashley emig
- Aug 4, 2020
- 15 min read
This is a channeled collective message. When this message reaches you it is divinely timed. Take what resonates and leave the rest. This is intended for the week of August 4th ~ 10th, but whenever it reaches you it is meant for you. Trust and receive.
Hello and welcome, beautiful Souls!
“Love is in the air” is the first thing I heard from this message! I love that because Aquarius is an air sign and The Star is represented by that astrological sign. It also represents H o p e and H e a l i n g, how fitting as we also just had a Full Moon in this sign yesterday! How synchronistic, right? I am picking up that a lot of you are receiving signs like crazy. You’re feeling guided by The Stars. This could be related to New Love, but also REnewed Love and new business opportunities, maybe even for some in the field of Love, Romance and Relationships.
Some of you are seeking new love, but this could be in many different forms and not just romantic love from a partner, this is also NEW LOVE in the form of Self. You’re beginning to see your Self in a New Light, which is allowing yourself to not only be more loving toward your Self; your body and mind, but also to others. This is a result of a vibrational shift. Which we actually had come up three weeks ago, so you may want to check out that blog post too, titled; “God Speaks”, as there may be more messages for you.
This frequency shift is allowing you to see your Self through the eyes of Love, which brings you out of an energy of lack, survival and suffering and is lifting you into a higher vibrational energy of U N I T Y. Unity Consciousness is the only state in which we can experience Unconditional Love. A lot of us had our perceptions of Love, Money and Self distorted in childhood when incarnating into bloodlines of pain and suffering, poverty, violence, abuse, neglect, limiting religious indoctrinations and patriarchal people pleasers.
This kind of upbringing can drastically alter our Self Perception and we can end up feeling lost, fragmented, abandoned, isolated, depressed, anxious, imprisoned and down right worthless as an adult. This keeps us in self sabotaging behaviors “blocking” us from the things we desire most as humans; prosperity, connection, empathy and intimacy. The feeling of unworthiness is a limiting belief that keeps us stuck in a scarcity mindset. It can keep us stuck in cycles of poverty and abuse in our adult relationships.
Also, don’t get it twisted… just because you have a job, 401k, benefits, a home, cars, clothes, food and other luxuries, does not mean you aren’t still in a state of poverty consciousness. Living pay check to pay check is considered poverty. You may have seen your parents argue about money or even split up because of it. This causes a distorted belief that money is “bad” or will cause chaos in your relationship. When we struggle with money, budgeting and overspending, it stems from a deeper seated wound rooted in unworthiness.
Some of you may have been taught that money is how you give and receive love. Maybe this is how your parents showed you love. So, you may spend money to feel a sense of Love, but it only lasts a short while before you feel that sense of unworthiness. Some of you use money to inflate your ego and make you feel good about your Self. But Spirit is saying; if you attach your self worth to how much money you make or have, you’ll never feel like it’s enough and your sense of self will fluctuate with the economy and it’s ever changing structure.
Spirit is encouraging you to stop placing so much emphasis on money and how much you accumulate. Some of you compare yourself to others and what they seem to have and you don’t and you get caught in mental traps that keep you from being appreciative of what you already have. Money is not the end all be all, it is necessary for us to live, but we shouldn’t be neglecting our health; mental, emotional, physical, neglecting our relationship with our family and loved ones and putting it above all else, like it’s the Source. That’s where we get “fucked”, mind fucked...
When GOD or The Universe, Source whatever resonates for you becomes your S O U R C E then you are infinitely supplied with all that you will ever need. YOU ARE NEVER LACKING. All the Love, the support, the guidance, the encouragement, the courage, the strength, the perseverance, the dignity, the POWER, it is all just dwelling within you, waiting for you to seek it out and BECOME IT ALL.
It is time to stop hiding your Light. Some of you have always dreamed about being a Star, like a movie star or a rock star, you desire to be in the Spotlight. You may also have deep fears of being seen and heard that are keeping you “small”. Spirit is saying; make sure your intention is coming from a place of purity and connection to Source. Fame and stardom can be an Ego Trap and when approached from a savior mentality, like; once you are in the spotlight and admired by others then you will finally feel “worthy”, validated seen and fulfilled. That is a form of escapism. But if you’re following your desire to use your Soul, to use your God Given Gifts to inspire, uplift and transform, then it is safe to take inspired action to make your dreams a reality.
Don’t use being validated by others to build you up and encourage you to follow your dreams. Because the truth is most people haven’t been on the path you’re on, so you have to take on the role as the “boss” and leader. You have to rely on your own understanding. Don’t let negative people or situations bring you down. Hold solid and firm boundaries and move forward with Trust in your Self. The only person that can believe in you, is you. Be your own muse and don’t let others pettiness confuse.
Because some of you are dealing with narcissists, liars, manipulators, thiefs, tricksters, energy vampires. You may be in a relationship (romantic, business, plotonic, friends & family) that is emotionally, verbally, psychologically and physically abusive. You may be with someone who constantly puts you down. Calls you names, makes fun of you, the way you dress, the way you behave, the way you speak, the way you look. I am picking up on BIG manipulative energy. They may even do this behind your back, but to your face they act coy and falsely kind and you can see right through their games. Laugh at their attempt to drag your name through the mud, but know that is their Karma. The only person their truly “hurting” is themselves, let them and don’t take offense. Send them compassion and see that they are trying to hurt you, becuase they are hurting. See them as a hurting child and this will help shift your perspective.
BUT I am also picking up on GUILT. The person you may be dealing with harbors a lot of guilt about their past behavior, their past in general and they feel an overwhelming sense of suffocating anxiety that is making them behave irrational, erratic, even to the point of a potential personality disorder and I hear; Bi-Polar disorder.
People like this can be hard to detect from a physician because they are so good at hiding it. They are able to easily play a role. They may have watched their parents play a role and they are mimicking the same behavior in their now adult relationship and Life. They are really good liars and put on a mask depending who they are around. This is how they easily manipulate physicians and go untreated, because they can pretend to be what they need to be in order to get what they want. The energy I am picking up on is sly and secretive.
You may feel a sense of “disgust” when around this person, but they cover it up with how they “dress themselves up” on the outside. To the naked eye they will seem healthy, happy and even empathetic, but underneath you can sense it is rotten, its all a lie, it is an act, it’s a show that’s distracting you from the TRUTH of who they are. They don’t want you to see their Truth, most likely because they are ashamed of it. But these kinds of personalities get off on humiliating others, to “make a fool of you”, to create chaos and drama in your Life, but they’re only doing it to relieve themselves of their own shame and internal chaos. Notice that this how they feel about themselves, it’s the energy they’re residing in and you’re sensing it from a place that can’t be seen, but can be felt. Trust your Gut, trust your feelings, LISTEN to your INTUITION.
You’re learning to see through this behavior with your personal empowerment. You’re learning how to not manipulate your feelings anymore. Instead of allowing another person to put you down or make you feel bad about your Self and draining your confidence, self esteem, self worth and power, you are seeing them through the eyes of Love. Because you're in a new energetic frequency that is allowing you to detach from your feelings and see the higher perspective.
You’re seeing that you’ve attracted this kind of behavior in a relationship because of the relationship you learned to have with your Self, from the relationship you had with your caregivers. From this state we can enter into a perspective of forgiveness, empathy and understanding. We heal our own narcissistic tendies of denying our emotional experience and we use our elevated emotions of compassion, Love and forgiveness to attract NEW LOVE.
If we want New Love, Love that is unconditional and beautiful then we absolutely have to Love ourselves in the same way. How can you expect to attract Healthy Love if you’re in a Toxic relationship with your Self--your emotions, body and mind? When we begin to Love ourselves unconditionally, when we start to extend forgiveness and compassion to ourselves for the way we have treated our Self--mind, body, Spirit, in the past. Forgive ourselves for all the times we gave our power away or abused our bodies and minds with negativity, for our Self Hatred and Self Harm. It’s then and only then can we move forward and attract the love we are worthy of.
Spirit is saying; You do not have to live like this. You are not meant to suffer, to be in pain, to be consumed by anxiety, to be drowning in sadness, to be poor, to be struggling, to be in fear, to be trapped, to be isolated, to be hurt, to be abused, to be cut down. YOU DESERVE LOVE. You deserve freedom, you deserve wealth, you deserve health, you deserve peace, you deserve connection, you deserve romance, you deserve to be worshiped.
All these things are true, yet most of us struggle to B E L I E V E them and we end up sabotaging our own opportunity to have this unconditional love. It’s when we wait for it to come from outside of us first before allowing ourselves to receive it that we feel like it’s impossible to attain. But our M A G I C power is being able to generate and create that feeling of Unconditional Love for ourselves, by ourselves.
Some of you are staying in unhealthy and toxic relationships that you know have fully expired. There is no more “spark”, there is no more connection. You may feel lonely and disconnected from them. It may feel like you’re trapped or stuck in someway. You may feel betrayed and hurt by this person's continuous abusive behavior, yet somehow you justify it and stay, because staying in an unhealthy relationship is more familiar and feels “safer” to the mind than being alone. This stems not only from giving away our Power to “Men” at the beginning of time, when the Woman was considered the weaker of the sexes, when the only way we would survive is by being in a pack, having protection and a provider. But if your pack is unhealthy, you now, in this abundant day and age get the opportunit to make it on our own, in fact you can mother fucking THRIVE on our own.
Some of you fear being single. I am laughing out loud because our society has totally created this sense of “loneliness” when it comes to being single. And I totally feel this because I’ve literally been single my whole life and I always used to let it make me feel “unworthy” in a way, or like something must be “wrong” with me, or “Am I not good enough”? All these questions arise in the space of being single. A lot of people settle in partnerships that are unhealthy just so they don’t have to sit with the discomfort of being alone and single.
Why, you ask? BECAUSE IT MAKES YOU SIT WITH YOUR OWN SHIT… You don’t get to project it on to your partner. You don’t get to blame anyone or anything for your unhappiness. You have to sit with your negative feelings and take accountability for them. It’s so easy to say to ourselves “well, if my partner didn’t or did do “xyz” then I wouldn’t FEEL this way. This, my folks, is how you stay STUCK. Because you’re not realizing that no one makes us feel anything, we all have 100 percent control over our own emotions. We decide how we will feel. And our happiness, love, value and connection is no longer dependent on something or someone that is completely out of our control.
Emotional maturity is something I am picking up on. A lot of us were not taught how to take responsibility for our own emotions and thoughts (beliefs) that actually create our own personal reality. If we had caregivers that did not set a good example of Unconditional Love or healthy relationship dynamics then this will be something that we unconsciously repeat. Most people that grew up in chaotic or turbulent households where there was a lot of fighting, arguing and yelling, are emotionally immature.
Everytime they’re creating conflict, unconsciously they are throwing a tantrum to seek connection. They didn’t learn how to effectively express their emotions, so they can tend to build up, going unaddressed and then they get “triggered” by a partner for example or by a random stranger in traffic or at the drive through window, and they have a “blow up”, have a tantrum because it’s the only way they know how to express their emotions.
I am sensing a lot of anger, anxiety and this sense of walking on eggshells. This may have been something you learned to do in childhood as a way to avoid a “blow up” from one of your parents. This is learned behavior and can be managed by becoming conscious of your emotional body and observing how it shifts and changes when around certain people or in certain environments. You can regulate your emotions with Presence and breathwork to still the mind and relax the body so you feel safe enough to act, rather than “blow up”.
Your Nervous System and Body Intelligence will tell you the Truth. If you feel unsafe in your body while in a relationship or while in your home, then trust your body's signals and leave, make a plan of action and remove yourself from the unhealthy situation. You may be more scared to leave than you are to stay, but if you continue to stay in a toxic environment, the sicker you will become in mind, body and soul and the feeling of entrapment will begin to suffocate you and suck your Life Force energy so that you stay bound forever.
The key is not necessarily physical freedom, the key is mental freedom. Most of us allow our thoughts to trap us. To keep us in these unhealthy dynamics. We can easily free ourselves, but we get stuck in the overthinking, forgetting that if we do what is for our H I G H E S T G O O D we will ALWAYS be provided by and supported by The Divine in miraculous ways. Some of you are being called by your soul to exit these unhealthy, life sucking relationships, behavioral patterns, jobs and environments so that you can call in NEW LOVE, new opportunities and possibilities.
Spirit says: You can't hold onto the old and receive the new. You have to LET GO and be in that space of the unknown, in the emptiness. In this space your H O P E in Divine Love can be restored. So you can begin to build your confidence, connect to your body, focus on your health and happiness. We tend to over give to these abusive and unhealthy relationships because we want so badly for someone else to Love us and care for us, but all the while we don’t love or care for ourselves. We want someone else to do it for us so we don’t have to put in the “work” or the effort. Relationships must be maintenanced and tended to like a garden. If you don’t nurture your relationship with Self, you’re going to struggle to nurture your relationship with a potential pattern, friends, co-workers and your children.
You have to stop waiting for it to come to you and you have to be a conscious creator of it. You have to supply your own Love and connection before it will ever feel like enough coming from someone else. The truth is; people can only love us as much as they love themselves. When we are lacking our own love and support we’re going to want to depend on it from someone else. That is how we give our power away, by allowing others to dictate our emotions for us.
If you struggle to feel joy, happiness and pleasure on your own, it’s never going to be enough coming from someone else. You may feel like you give and give and give, but never get anything in return… So, the lesson is to stop overgiving to everyone else and start giving to yourself. If you feel like you’re lacking in love, or money or connection then look at where you’re giving your energy.
Your energy is like a bank, what you give your time and attention to (thoughts and emotions) is what you invest in. Some of you deplete your funds on jobs and relationships that drain you and then wonder why you feel so empty. This is because you’re giving your energy to things that are out of alignment with your Soul. The only way to increase your funds is by giving your time and energy to DOING what your soul loves. From this state of operation you are limitless, and endlessly supported. You do not experience lack or burnout or depletion, for your FUNds are infinite.
Wouldn’t it be cool to have an infinite bank filled with an endless supply of time, energy and money? Yesssss, that imaginary bank is YOU, yes you heard that right, you are the teller, you are the cash, you are the BANK. You can give yourself endless amounts of energy. From this mindset you can begin to shift your consciousness and you expand your ability to receive. The Divine is always looking to fill you, but you must make the space for it to enter. You have to check those old belief systems of lack and busting your back, and struggling to generate love and money, and start to create a mindset of ease, expansion and overflow. Let yourself I M A G I N E swimming in a pool of abundance.
Some of us have been taught that Love and Money are “hard to get”, that’s only because the relationship we’ve been taught to have with it, but we can teach ourselves NEW WAYS. That is our POWER, that we are our own teachers, our own leaders and our own caregivers. We are responsible for our belief systems. No one is “doing this to you”. You are creating the Life you have with your unconscious beliefs around money and or Love.
Do some research, I am picking up on the Akashic records and seeing the crown chakra in my Third eye. Spend time in silence to download the information you need from Spirit. The Akashic Records is an infinite library of knowledge that you access through Unity Consciousness. From here you can download the energetic codes to anything you want to know. It is impossible to Know Everything, but it is possible to use it as a resource to help you shift your perspective and mindset from a state of limitation to that of expansion.
When we are open to new ways of viewing things instead of always believing that our way is the “right” way and the only way, and we allow ourselves to be more fluid and flexible then we can stop trapping ourselves from keeping us aligning with our Destiny. Destiny isn’t all preordained, it is an active dance of energetic alignment with our Authentic Truth. When we align with our Soul’ authentic expression we are more likely to create serendipitous events that were preplanned by our Spirit’s journey, that would help us ascend, evolve and grow.
Sometimes our most challenging and difficult relationships are destined as teachers to help our Soul awaken to it’s Truth. Some last for only a short time and some for a lifetime. When you begin to align with your Truth you begin to feel your Life is like a series of stepping stones, each stone is leading you one at a time. You don’t get so caught up in the details and you’re present to Here and Now, this helps to release overwhelm and control issues.
Some of you are healing your control issues that you learned in childhood. You want to plan and over analyze every little detail of your life, but this is keeping you limited in so many ways. Leave room for the mystery and the unfolding of your path. You may have really high expectations and when things don’t turn out exactly as you hoped or imagined you tend to get disappointed and you question your Self and your path. Spirit is saying; don’t be fooled by your own fears, don’t let your insecurities keep you small and living the status quo. Move beyond “The Crowd” and do things your own unique way. When you stop expecting so much, you open up to acceptance and every minute feels like an opportunity to find New Love, abundant opportunities and Divine Inspiration.
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Love and blessings, Ashley <3
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